For the Love of God!

If you read the title of today’s post and thought, “Oh my! this is going to be a rant!”…. well… you are not wrong! But stay with me you’ll be pleasantly surprised.

We are now in October and I am already starting to dread the days leading up to the end of the year when I review everything that was on my new year’s resolution list to accomplish for this year. There are things on that list that I can catch up on and get done so I can check them off; but sadly there is so much more that I will have to concede that I failed to accomplish. One of them was to blog at least once, every week, for every week of the year 2024. And if you have been following my posts, you know I have failed woefully on that account. Another even more important thing on my list was to read my bible and spend time praying everyday. Well… that too went the way of the dodo and now I am left with two choices. Do I make up for lost time from now till the end of the year? or do I simply decide that I failed to meet these goals for this year and put them on the list again for next year? For some of you, you have fallen off the wagon for your diet, or exercise regimen, or may be for you it is also something of a spiritual discipline. I’ll tell you what I did:

I decided that everyday I have life is an opportunity to do and be better… to occupy well… and so I grabbed a 30 day devotional to read through the month of October. And guess what? God met me right where I was. Yesterday, I decided to read the back cover of the devotional and right there was this statement:

“For some of you, daily devotionals is a familiar discipline. For others, this may be new or a habit that has been hard to master. If you miss a day, do not be discouraged. Simply begin anew. This is not a test of endurance or consistency. It is an opportunity to be fed and loved by God”

Dr. John Neufeld

That just warmed my heart. It felt like God reaching right down from heaven to remove my guilt for not spending as much time with Him throughout the year and give me a new perspective for the rest of the days ahead. Do you know how many times my approach to reading the bible has been to just get it done so I can cross it off my list? Can you imagine how God has felt all these years when I grab my bible to meet with Him and I am rushing through it just to get it done so I can go to sleep? How many wonderful opportunities have I missed to just be fed and loved on by God as I spend “unsanctioned” time in His presence?

Today, I have come to find encouragement in these words: that reading my Bible and spending time with my Heavenly father is not a test of endurance or consistency but rather an opportunity to have God reach out and feed my hungry soul and quench my ravaging thirst with His very presence and His word. God is not as interested in how many times I have read my bible as He is in how many times I have given Him an opportunity to refresh and replenish me. His ask is very simple.

You have said, “Seek my face.” My heart says to you, “Your face, LORD, do I seek.”

Psalm 27:8 ESV

He says, “Seek my face” and like the psalmist, my only response should be “your face Lord do I seek.” And you know why? For the love of God… that’s why. Spending time with God is not only an expression of how much I love God, but an opportunity to experience first hand His love for me. It is all for the love of God! So folks if you are so far behind on your bible reading goals for this year, its not too late to catch up- well, realistically you will not catch up if you are months behind; but there is brand-new mercy and grace and an abundance of love waiting for you the next time you pick up your bible. It is never too late for that! Now this is not a criticism of those who have made a discipline of reading their bibles and spending time with God everyday. I do commend you! Rather, this is to take away the condemnation that the enemy brings to those of us who have fallen off the wagon and to silence the voice that wants to rob us of the opportunity to experience the love of God in these last few days of 2024 by telling us “its too late to pick up the habit!”

I grabbed another devotional to read with my kids and the topic for today was “starting over.” The devotional said:

Aren’t you glad God is in the “starting over” business? He doesn’t look at our failures. He’s not interested in focusing on what wagon we’ve fall off of . He’s only interested in picking us up, dusting us off, and putting us back on the road to success once more. What wagon have you fallen off of recently? don’t worry about it! just make up your mind to try once more God will honor your faithfulness.

Janice thompson

If I was doubting that God is lovingly reaching out to encourage me, I don’t doubt it now! How about you? Is God saying something to you through these words? You better believe it is all for the love of God!

Yours truly.

Water for the thirsty

For those of you who hunt, you know that deer do not stray far from water sources. This is because deer do not sweat but instead pant to cool off when they are hot, thus losing a lot of water in the process. So, the hotter the weather, the more their need for water. For a deer, access to water is not a lackadaisical matter, it is often one of life and death as water is its life source. With this image in mind, lets turn our attention to scripture:

As the deer pants for streams of water,
    so my soul pants for you, my God.
My soul thirsts for God, for the living God.
    When can I go and meet with God?

Psalm 42:1-2

Let me contextualize this scripture: each one of us has been created with a deep-seated need and longing for God. I have heard this longing described in terms of natural habitat. You take a plant out of the soil, it dies; you take a fish out of water, it dies; you take man (humankind) out of God, and we die- both physically and spiritually. As it is said in scripture Acts 17: 28a: For in him we live and move and have our being.

The psalmist says, as the deer pants for streams of water, so my soul pants for you. Do you feel a thirst and longing for God? And what are you filling this thirst with? Sometimes we chase after things that do not satisfy that deep longing in our hearts; these things are mirages which leave us thirstier and so we keep searching and chasing in this vicious cycle. Scripture describes this in Jer 2:13:

My people have committed two sins:
They have forsaken me,
    the spring of living water,
and have dug their own cisterns,
    broken cisterns that cannot hold water.

Jeremiah 2:13

What cisterns have you dug to satisfy the thirst in your life? Fast forward to the New Testament and Jesus meets a woman at a well. She is a typology of many believers today- more concerned with the performativity of worship; chasing after things that do not satisfy; holding on to broken cisterns and trying desperately to quench a God-thirst with man-made systems. And Jesus says to the woman,

“If you only knew the gift God has for you and who you are speaking to, you would ask me, and I would give you living water.”

John 4:10 NLT

To personalize this, it feels that of late God has been speaking to me about idols in my life- almost every sermon in church for the past couple of months have touch on this topic. Most recently, I was listening to a sermon by John Neufeld from back to the bible  he made  profound statement about idolatry- he said sometimes we hold images in our minds about who God is and about what we believe the worship of the true God is-  not what God says about Himself or how we should worship him, but what we think and feel it should be and when I reflect on my life, that is so true- Sometimes I come to church and I close off my heart to be receptive to God because I did not like the song choice for worship, or the opening line of the sermon was not as funny and so and so forth.  That is exactly what the woman at the well was doing… Jesus was offering her something eternal, living waters and she deflects and starts to talk about how her ancestors worshiped on a particular mountain, but the Jews say worship must be in Jerusalem. Jesus gently refocuses her gaze from the broken cistern of man-made rules, from her idol of what she thought and felt the worship of God should be to what it actually is “the true worshippers will worship in Spirit and in truth.” Jesus refocuses her to what is as stake… the living waters that He gives… the Holy Spirit. How do I know this? John 7: 37 says:

On the last and greatest day of the festival, Jesus stood and said in a loud voice, “Let anyone who is thirsty come to me and drink. Whoever believes in me, as Scripture has said, rivers of living water will flow from within them.”By this he meant the Spirit, whom those who believed in him were later to receive. Up to that time the Spirit had not been given since Jesus had not yet been glorified.

John 7: 37

Have you been hearing the call of the Jesus to come to him and drink of living water? Perhaps the Holy Spirit has been speaking to you like He has to me to abandon your broken cisterns. How are you going to satisfy that thirst? Will your response today be I thirst for God, the living God, when can I go and meet with God?

I conclude with a prayer from Psalm 63:1

O God, you are my God;
I earnestly search for you.
My soul thirsts for you;
my whole body longs for you
in this parched and weary land
where there is no water. AMEN

Yours Truly

And the Judge was judged…

Today’s post is going to take a very different format. This Sunday in church, I was inspired to write a poem as I listened to the sermon that was preached from Mark 14:53-72. The story in this passage from the book of Mark recounts the trial of Jesus, the night before he was sentenced to death. I encourage you to read the passage for context as you reflect on this short poem. Here goes:

Yours Truly.

Borrowed Bodies

For the past month or so, I have been reflecting on this topic as my family and I have navigated some trying times. Today, I will look at one of Jesus’ parables, the parable of the tenants, with a new perspective:

Then Jesus began to speak to them in parables: “A man planted a vineyard. He put a wall around it, dug a wine vat, and built a watchtower. Then he rented it out to some tenants and went away on a journey. At harvest time, he sent a servant to the tenants to collect his share of the fruit of the vineyard. But they seized the servant, beat him, and sent him away empty-handed. Then he sent them another servant, and they struck him over the head and treated him shamefully. He sent still another, and this one they killed. He sent many others; some they beat and others they killed. Finally, having one beloved son, he sent him to them. ‘They will respect my son,’ he said. But the tenants said to one another, ‘This is the heir. Come, let us kill him, and the inheritance will be ours.’ So they seized the son, killed him, and threw him out of the vineyard. What then will the owner of the vineyard do? He will come and kill those tenants, and will give the vineyard to others. Have you never read this Scripture: ‘The stone the builders rejected has become the cornerstone. This is from the Lord, and it is marvelous in our eyes’? ”At this, the leaders sought to arrest Jesus, for they knew that He had spoken this parable against them. But fearing the crowd, they left Him and went away. Mark 12:1-12 BSB

This parable was one of Jesus’ clearer ones- God had sent many messengers ahead of Jesus himself to present a message to a broken world to be reconciled to God but the world did not listen! so God sends his beloved son and even Him would be rejected and killed. The religious leaders of the day understood the implication of what Jesus was saying and immediately took offence but a few days later, the same religious leaders condemned Jesus to a brutal death outside of Jerusalem where he was beaten mercilessly and hung on a cross to die.

A few weeks ago, I heard a sermon where the pastor was encouraging to look at this parable from another lens: the lens of the tenants. The tenants were renters of the vineyard. They had not planted the vineyard, neither had they put the wall around it, dug the wine vat, nor built the watchtower. The owner had put in all the work of creating this space and the tenants were mere renters of the vineyard who just had to share the fruit of the harvest with the owner. However, from the parable, the tenants were not acting as tenants at all! They were acting as if they were the owners of the vineyard when all they had to do was give the owner his due!

How many times do we act like we are owners of our own lives? How many times do we take all the glory for the things that happen in our lives, refusing to give God the glory that is due His name? We own nothing! Everything we have has been given to us.

After all, we brought nothing with us when we came into the world, and we can’t take anything with us when we leave it. 1Tim 6:7 NIV

Even the bodies that we have, we do not own… we are just tenants in them! We live, move, and enjoy pleasures in this body but at the end of the day, it is just that: a borrowed body. When the true owner asks of it, we relinquish this body, give it back to its owner, and it returns to the earth from which it came as dust or ashes.

Do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have received from God? You are not your own; you were bought at a price. Therefore glorify God with your body. 1 Cor 6:19-20

These are very humbling thoughts! But that’s not all, lets continue to look at the story. Before the owner came a-calling, he sent many messengers, even his own son, to remind the tenants that they were to give him his due while they were operating the rented vineyard. While we are operating in our borrowed bodies, how many messengers have God sent to remind us that we are not our own, that we were bought with a price, a price that cost Him the blood of His Son Jesus on a rugged cross? Are we heeding the messengers? How has God been reminding you of late that this world is not your own and you are just passing through? How has God been telling you to put your vineyard in order and make an accounting of the life you have been given? When He asks for your body back, would you be ready to give account of what you did with it and how you glorified Him with your body?

Maybe this post comes as a messenger to you today… what are you going to do about the message? The owner gave the tenants countless opportunities to turn things around before sending his son. But one day, they ran out of time and the owner himself came to the vineyard and it was game over for them. God will continue to send invitations to us to be reconciled to him and it will keep coming and coming and coming and coming until the day it stops. Oh God may I not be found wanting on that day!

Search me O God and know my heart today….try me O Saviour and know my thoughts I pray. See if there is any wicked way in me and cleanse me from all my sins and set me free.

Martin Luther

Finally, to cap it off, lets talk about giving God his due. As I reflect over my life, there have been many times that I have looked at my accomplishments and thought to myself, “wow see what you have achieved!” I credit my intellect, strength, skills, and abilities for my achievements and sometimes the glory that is due God takes a back burner as I pursue opportunities to continue to grow my fame and acclaim and amass all these great accolades and achievements. This struggle is as old as time. The people of Babel said “Come let’s build a great city for ourselves with a tower that reaches into the sky. This will make us famous and keep us from being scattered all over the world (Gen 11:4 NIV).” King Nebuchadnezzer said, “Look at this great city Babylon! By my own mighty power, I have built this city as my royal residence to display my majestic splendor (Daniel 4:30 NIV).” The rich fool said, “This is what I will do: I will tear down my barns and build larger ones, and there I will store all my grain and my goods. And I will say to my soul, “Soul, you have many goods laid up for many years to come; take your ease, eat, drink and be merry.”(Luke 12: 18-19 NASB).” In each of these examples, God showed them that He is owner of everything they had amassed, had accomplished, and even of their very lives! If we ought to boast, let it be in what God has done for us and has accomplished for us: let us boast in the work of the cross and just like the Apostle Paul, may this be our confession:

May I never boast except in the cross of our Lord Jesus Christ, through which the world has been crucified to me, and I to the world. Galatians 6:14 NIV

I leave you with these lyrics to ponder:

I will not boast in anything
No gifts, no power, no wisdom
But I will boast in Jesus Christ
His death and resurrection

Stuart Townend

Yours Truly.

P.S. In memory of KODA. Rest easy!

The Blessing of Hope

Yesterday, I was feeling very sorry for myself… feeling like my life is not going the way I want it at all. As I reflected on my life choices over the past two years it felt like other people are living the life that should have been mine. I woke up today wanting to feel better so I reached for a devotional and found some encouragement, which I share with you today: the blessing of hope!

You see, we move so quickly through our daily lives, often thinking about the next “to do”, next deliverable or project or responsibility to be fulfilled. As has been my experience, living a fast paced life leaves little room for pause, rest, and connection with God or discovering Him in His word. This may lead to us detaching from those God-given longings, dreams and desires that He wants to fulfil in us. Or perhaps, the rhythms of our lives have been riddled with disappointment and delay that those godly things that once has roots in our heart seemed to have withered away.

Today, I share with you about “hope” and why this blessing of God is so important in our lives. First of, I call hope a blessing because it is fundamentally grounded in God Himself and in His word and not determined by what will or will not happen in our lives.

Why am I discouraged? Why is my heart so sad? I will put my hope in God! I will praise him again— my Savior and my God!

Psalm 42:11 NLT

God gives us the gift of hope so our minds and hearts can be anchored in the face of adversity. When life as we know it feels like its gone off its rails or we feel like we are like a ship gone adrift in the storms of life, hope anchors us and keeps us grounded and sane. It reminds us that there is something bigger to life than what is going on in our mind right now.

We have this hope as an anchor for the soul, firm and secure.

Hebrews 6:19a

Hope takes center stage and is forged through adversity (Romans 5:4); this is where we experience hope’s greatest work in keeping us focused on what is most important, God and His plans for us. Hope brings us back to the godly desires and fulfillments in our hearts and rekindles the spark in us. Hope is that “scent of water” that causes a dead stump of a tree whose roots have grown old in the soil to bud and put out branches again (Job 14:7-9). When our souls and minds are overwhelmed, hope leads us to the rock that is “higher than us”- to a place of safety so we are not stuck in the dark doldrums of despair (Psalm 61:2). Hope pulls us out of despair and leads us back to God’s plan for our lives which is always bright and future oriented.

For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the LORD, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future…”

Jeremiah 29:11 NIV

So this all sounds great and promising but if you are like me, you are asking, “How can I access this hope now or whenever I am feeling like my world has come crushing down on me?” Famous for this lament, Prophet Jeremiah said,

I will never forget this awful time, as I grieve over my loss. Yet I still dare to hope when I remember this: The faithful love of the LORD never ends! His mercies never cease. They are new every morning; great is your faithfulness. I say to myself, “The LORD is my inheritance; therefore, I will hope in him!”

Lamentations 3:20-23 NLT/NIV

I encourage you to start with an honest throwback of when God has been faithful and his mercies has been available to you. Recollecting how far God has brought us brings a perspective shift: that what we are going through today is only a page, a scene in our story and not the entire story. Allow God’s spirit to illuminate to your mind the instances of His goodness and kindness towards you and with these instances in mind, dare to hope! Call out to God and He promises to incline His ear to us and lift us out of the miry clay (Psalms 40:2). “This I recall to my mind therefore I have hope!”

I also cannot stress enough the importance of taking times each day to step away and retreat from the grind of life to reflect and pray. We have an example in Jesus who did this very often while He walked the earth to be alone with Himself and with God. Incorporating rhythms of Sabbath-rest during our day helps us to purposefully connect to the desires God has placed in our hearts. It helps us to evaluate why we are busy in the first place and if our busyness is in line with the future and hope promised in God. It helps us to reflect on why we are feeling weary and tired in our minds and souls and gives us opportunity to observe God’s workings in our lives. You see, when we activate hope, we are looking future-forward to a bright hope for tomorrow, which is hard to do when you are feeling hopeless. What better way to envision that bright hope than during intentional moments of pause when you can listen for God’s whispers as they rekindle the flames of your heart’s desires and consequently refuel your dreams, hopes, and aspirations.

Now I will back track to something that caught my attention in the passage from Lamentations. it says: “The LORD is my inheritance; therefore, I will hope in him!” When an inheritance is bequeath to another unless that person gives it away, it is theirs for as long as they live and as long as the inheritance remains. What a blessing to have God as our inheritance; that even on our darkest days, God is our portion- He is ours and we are His! We are never alone. He promises never to leave or turn his back on us and that is cause for hope!

So dear friend, I don’t know what you are going through but I want to leave you with this prayer:

I pray that God, the source of hope, will fill you completely with joy and peace because you trust in him. Then you will overflow with confident hope through the power of the Holy Spirit.

Romans 15:13 NLT

Yours Truly.

p. s. Adapted from and inspired by Colette Stewart’s ‘Rekindling hope in life’s fast lane’.

The Economics of Eternity: God or Money?

Last month I discovered something about myself: I have an unhealthy relationship with money. My everyday thoughts and functioning is subsumed by what I term “the economics of money in action” i. e. earning money, buying goods and services, paying for bills and utilities- it takes over your life completely. I realized my first thought in the day is about the everyday cares of this world and my last thought at night is about the cares of this world. As I have reflected about my relationship with money, I have come to realize how pervasive it is, even to the extent that all my relationships have become somewhat defined by the economics of money. My dealings with family, friends, colleagues, bosses, significant others, children, and even acquaintances have money at the center of it. Many of my friendships and relationships have been built on the capital of me giving of my time and resources (cash and kind) and while this is not necessarily a bad thing, God has been pushed away from center place in my life as the economics of money has taken centrality in my thoughts and actions. This poses some major problems.

First, money is fleeting and with it, the joy and stability it brings. Unfortunately, when we build on the foundation of the economics of money, the relationships, worldviews, and foundational principles are anchored in a system of shifting sand. Money comes and money goes and nothing that is built on this ephemeral concept has eternal value. Jesus told a parable to illustrate this:

“The ground of a certain rich man produced an abundance. So he thought to himself, ‘What shall I do, since I have nowhere to store my crops?’ Then he said, ‘This is what I will do: I will tear down my barns and will build bigger ones, and there I will store up all my grain and my goods. Then I will say to myself, “You have plenty of good things laid up for many years. Take it easy. Eat, drink, and be merry!” ’But God said to him, ‘You fool! This very night your life will be required of you. Then who will own what you have accumulated? This is how it will be for anyone who stores up treasure for himself but is not rich toward God.”

Luke 12: 16-21 BSB

It is even more problematic when our relationship with God is built on the currency of the economics of money. Our prayers stop having Kingdom impact as we turn inwards to ask for our daily bread and our daily bread alone. Most prayers, like mine have been for the past 19 years, become about God’s blessing to make us comfortable in this world. Our trust in God is built on God’s ability to answer our prayer requests to meet our physical, material, and economic needs and has very little to do with the fact that He is God. How dependable God is judged by how quickly our prayers for things that have earthly value are answered or how quickly these prayers manifest into reality. Over the years, I have stopped praying for things that I think God may not answer quickly enough or may be too “big” for God to handle so I am not “disappointed in God”. Many of us have relinquished God to a genie in the bottle whose sole purpose is to serve me and grant me my wishes. Afterall, God operates on principles and so if I give like He instructs in scripture (tithes and offerings) to then He has no choice than to bless me. Such is a life that tries to build a relationship with God on the economics of money.

Jesus knew that besides sin, money has the greatest potential to keep us chained to this fleeting world so we are swept away with it at the end of all ages. He described the economics of money as mammon. The term mammon stems from the Greek word mammonas and related root words appear in Hebrew, Latin, and Aramaic. Mammon can be defined as “earthly goods, property, riches, etc.” Mammon are the things of this world that can divert our attention and love from God to the pleasures and comforts of earthly desires. Jesus theorized that there are two masters in this world, God and mammon and one can only serve one master at a time.

No one can serve two masters: Either he will hate the one and love the other, or he will be devoted to the one and despise the other. You cannot serve both God and money.

Matthew 6:24 BSB

Although mammon can provide fleeting happiness, ultimately it is a deadly distraction from the salvation of our souls. However, God in his goodness for us did not leave us helpless to the wiles of mammon. That is why He showed us the secret of how to overcome this dilemma. He encouraged us to seek His Kingdom first and leave the economics of money to God to take care of.

“So don’t worry about these things, saying, ‘What will we eat? What will we drink? What will we wear?’ These things dominate the thoughts of unbelievers, but your heavenly Father already knows all your needs. Seek the Kingdom of God above all else, and live righteously, and he will give you everything you need…”

Matthew 6: 31-33 NLT

Here is the secret: If you seek God and give Him centrality in your heart and life, the economics of money follows and you also store treasures that are of eternal value. But if the economics of money has centrality, it will consume you and at the end of times it will profit nothing you will lose it all; you will have no heavenly investments.

And what do you benefit if you gain the whole world but lose your own soul?

Mark 8:36 NLT

Today, I encourage you to reflect on which master you serve on a daily basis by examining what percentage of your day is devoted to God or to mammon. Compare how often you think about what you will eat or feed the family, what you wear, economic opportunities, paying bills and utilities, exchanging of material goods and services against how often you think about God’s kingdom being established on earth and your role in this endeavor, the masses coming to the saving grace and knowledge of Jesus Christ, the whole earth being filled with the glory of God and the part you play in this etc. Ask yourself, “who or what has centrality in my life? God or mammon?”

Don’t store up treasures here on earth, where moths eat them and rust destroys them, and where thieves break in and steal. Store your treasures in heaven, where moths and rust cannot destroy, and thieves do not break in and steal. Wherever your treasure is, there the desires of your heart will also be.

Matthew 6:19-21 NLT

Yours Truly.

Redemptive Thinking- And It Was Very Good

A few blog posts ago, I introduced you to the concept of redemptive thinking with an understanding that it begins from knowing and believing that God is good. But how can we believe that God is good when we do not see goodness in ourselves or in the people around us? I recently saw a post titled, “My first abusive relationship was with God” and it truly gave me pause. I had to really think about that post not because it is true but because it represents a sentiment felt by many today who have abandoned their faith or are at a point where they are questioning if Christianity is worth it.

Many of us have been socialized to view salvation in a one-sided light and it becomes easy to fall into a trap of feeling low self-worth when we should be feeling like princes and princesses of a Glorious King. We have heard and come to believe that God was angry with humankind and did not like us because of our sin and the only way He could deal with us was to send His Son to die for our sin. God is a perfect God, who demands perfection and sin separates us from the perfect God and so Jesus Christ, the perfect Son of God paid the price of sin and now imputes on us His righteousness. So when God looks at us, He sees the sacrifice of Jesus for us and is able to relate with us because of the blood of Jesus.

Now while this narrative of the gospel has many elements of truth embedded in it, there are still pieces of the salvation message that are grossly underdeveloped. One of these is that God first loved you in spite of you. Even before the blood of Jesus washed you of your sins you were first and foremost loved. This is a very important principle in being able to live a victorious Christian life, free from the guilt and condemnation that Satan brings as we try to live lives that are pleasing to God. In Gen 1:31a the scripture says:

And God looked upon all that He had made, and indeed, it was very good. BSB

It was very good. Humankind was very good. YOU were very good. Before the blood of Jesus, it started out with a God who made you in His own image and likeness and declared that you were very good; and He is trying to get you back to His vision of very good for you through the sanctifying work of the blood of Jesus. When He looks at you, He sees you- where you are today in His perfect plan and the you He created you to be. As we strive to live and walk with God on a daily basis, we sometimes falter; we are not our best selves somedays; and sometimes sin gets the better of us. This is why it is important to remember that while we were yet sinners, God’s love for us was so great He died for our sins. Even though Christ never sinned and so this is not an exact illustration, there is a powerful illustration of this point at the baptism of Jesus which I heard in a sermon last week.

Did you know that when the heavens opened and God said of Jesus, “This is my beloved son in whom I am well pleased”, Jesus was yet to perform a miracle? He had not started doing all the amazing things we would come to know Jesus for and yet God spoke over Him that He was loved! What a powerful way to begin His ministry on earth, empowered by the love of the Father. Can I advance to you that before you become or became this amazing Christian whose walk with God is flawless, that Holy Ghost filled believer whose faith can move mountains, that powerful prayer warrior that is tearing down the kingdom of darkness, that person who loves the word of God, that man or woman who is not ashamed of the gospel of Christ, etc., GOD FIRST LOVED YOU!

But God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us.

Romans 5:8 NIV

Love came before the blood. Our ability to be victorious over sin and the condemnation of guilt and shame is in the fact that above all, we are loved and because of this great love Christ died and we are now in Him (and being in Christ give us a positionality over sin that is a whole new ball game and deserves a topic of its own). The love that God has for us gives us confidence in this world and confidence to stand before Christ at the day of judgement.

And we have come to know and believe the love that God has for us. God is love; whoever abides in love abides in God, and God in him. In this way, love has been perfected among us, so that we may have confidence on the day of judgement for in this world we are just like Him. There is no fear in love, but perfect love drives out fear, because fear involves punishment. The one who fears has not been perfected in love.

1 John 4:16-18 BSB

Once we come to an understanding of how much we are loved, this knowledge does not give us a license to keep living in sin or in our brokenness. Instead, this knowledge should drive us to see ourselves as God sees us…as very good and to motivate us to work with God to attain this perfect state! Our sufficiency, our successes, our goodness comes from Him through the finished work of Jesus on the cross. This is certainly not the characteristic of an abuser. This is who our God who loves us and wants to restore us to the Manufacturer’s setting through the blood of Christ. Do you sometimes feel you are not enough? Even in my shortcomings, He is there to let me know His strength is perfect in my weakness and I am enough because I am loved!

Yours Truly.

P.S. I was totally blown away by this encouragement and so I am going to share it with you. As a mother, there are many times when I have felt clueless and unsure of what I am doing. I have felt discouraged and have beaten myself up more times than I would like to admit. Last week during the sermon, the pastor in expounding on the fact that ‘Christ is in us, therefore we are enough because He is enough’ said, “If God needed someone else to mother those children He would have found someone else. He chose you! So choose you! I encourage you to choose you this week.. because God saw that everything He had made including YOU was very good!

Redemptive Thinking-“O God Why?”

This week’s blog is by Pastor Kwashie Tettevi and begins the blog series, “Redemptive Thinking”. As I delve into the book of Job and grapple alongside Job with the realities of loss and grief, this post offers a great perspective into understanding the goodness of God which is a paramount in redemptive thinking. So let’s begin by looking at some scriptures:

Psalm 135:6 (KJV) “Whatsoever the LORD pleased, that did he in heaven, and in earth, in the seas, and all deep places”

Daniel 4:35 (KJV) “He doeth according to his will in the army of heaven, and among the inhabitants of the earth: and none can stay his hand, or say unto him, What doest thou?”

Isaiah 14:24, 27 “The LORD of hosts hath sworn, saying, Surely as I have thought, so shall it come to pass; and as I have purposed, so shall it stand.  For the LORD of hosts hath purposed, and who shall disannul it? and his hand is stretched out, and who shall turn it back?”

Eccl 3:14 “I know that, whatsoever God doeth, it shall be for ever: nothing can be put to it, nor any thing taken from it: and God doeth it, that men should fear before him”

These verses introduce us to God who is a sovereign supreme ruler, has ultimate power, is completely in charge of His creation, and does what pleases Him in His universe. And when disasters strike, like devastation caused by earthquakes, hurricanes, accidents of all kinds or in the face of accidents, poverty, breakdown of family units, abuse of various forms, violence, wars, illnesses (terminal or otherwise), and death, it is human nature to ask, “O God why? Why?” “Why did you allow this or that to happen?” “Why did you not intervene and prevent this or that from happening?”

Some Christians believe that if they have sufficient faith, God will not allow them to suffer severe trials or tribulations. However, this is an erroneous, non-biblical belief which is often a manifestation of the false gospel called the “prosperity gospel” where adherents declare, “No tragedy or calamity can touch my life!” or “I can never be sick!” or “I can never be poor!” and so on and so forth. When adherents of the “prosperity gospel” make such declarations, they place a huge burden on Christians who are going through struggles with tragedy, sickness, loss, etc. which can be very discouraging and can potentially overthrow their faith during those times. The reality is that such declarations misrepresent God and His plan for His people. Tragedy, trials, and tribulations do not negate the fact that God is good but they are not meant to leave us in hopeless despair either.

There is no scriptural teaching that promises a life free of tragedy, suffering, sickness, or losses. What we are assured of is that God is with us in our earthly sufferings (Jn 16:33). He comforts us, helps us, and enables us to endure them. He also redeems and makes our suffering serve His good and glorious purposes (Rom 8:18, 28). There are three truths I would like us to ponder on.

First, Jesus Christ understands our suffering.

Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves receive from God.

2 Corinthians 1: 3-4 NIV

We do not have an unfeeling High Priest who is far removed from our suffering. He is the Father of compassion and He comforts us in ALL our troubles. For some the comfort comes right away, for others it may take some time. Regardless of the timeframe, He comforts us in every single one of our troubles. Our comfort overflows in Christ (2 Cor 1:5). He promises to be with us through all of lives circumstances – rejoicing over us with singing and accompanying us through our darkest days with His comfort.

Secondly, God is always working everything out for our good and to achieve His good purpose.

And we know that God causes everything to work together for the good of those who love God and are called according to his purpose for them.

Romans 8:28 NLT

The Old Testament illustration of Romans 8:28 is found Genesis 50. In that story, Joseph’s brothers betrayed him, sold him into slavery and falsely presented him dead to their father. Decades later, Joseph says this to his brothers:

You intended to harm me, but God intended it for good to accomplish what is now being done, the saving of many lives.

Genesis 50:20 NIV

We see two wills at work here: Joseph’s brothers’ who successfully perpetrated evil, and God’s will that successfully brought about good from their evil. There is a principle involved here – God sovereignly works so that the evil committed by men or Satan or his demons are dramatically reversed to achieve God’s good purposes. God is sovereign over the schemes of men and hell and He is working everything out for our good, to bring about an expected end. Now, God is explicit about His expected end in Genesis 50: 20, as He is today: the saving of lives! Restoring people back into fellowship with Himself is His ultimate goal and He works out this “good” in every situation of our lives.

And finally, our earthly suffering is temporary and cannot be compared with the transformation and joy we will experience for eternity in the world to come.

For I reckon that the sufferings of this present time are not worthy to be compared with the glory which shall be revealed in us.

Romans 8:18 KJV

When we are going through difficult times, it can be a hard thing to believe assuring words like those above. When we witness or are plagued with horrific illnesses, the aftermath of wars, or when death snatches away a loved one, it is difficult to fathom how it “works for our good” and how the glory of God will be revealed in that situation. It is easier to ask, “Why doesn’t God do something about the suffering to begin with?” Let me tell you something dear friends: He has!

The cross is God’s answer. God did do something! Jesus’ death brought about an end to the reign of evil and suffering. Born into this fallen world, Jesus Christ suffered the punishment which was due us. He who was without sin suffered the guilt, pain, and humiliation of having the sins of the world placed on Himself (2 Cor 5:16–21). In His agony on the cross, and at the point of death, Jesus shouted with a loud voice, “It is finished” and scripture records that the veil of the temple was torn into two (Mark 15:38). Our sins were fully atoned for and the power that sin (and suffering and pain) held over us released its grip and was broken forever. Now here is the “good” and expected end God worked for us through Jesus’ sacrifice:

Eventually, we will be able to identify with John who said, “I heard a loud shout from the throne, saying, ‘Look, God’s home is now among his people! He will live with them, and they will be his people. God himself will be with them. He will wipe every tear from their eyes, and there will be no more death or sorrow or crying or pain. All these things are gone forever’” (Revelations 21: 3-4 NLT).

What the enemy meant for evil in crucifying the LORD was meant for good, even the saving of many lives and the permanent abolishing of death, and sorrow, and crying and pain. That is the glory we look forward to – the day when God will fulfil this promise. Lord hasten the day when our faith shall be manifest! Hallelujah!

When “bad” things happen to us, there is always God’s (hidden) purpose in it. He will use it for our good; He will use it for His glory—perhaps in this life we will know it as such; and if not, we can be assured that we will know it finally, at the return of Christ. So then, let us be men and women of great faith, trusting our God completely with all of our hearts! For we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to his purpose. This, dear friend, is a change in our mindset. It is redemptive thinking!

Yours Truly

P.S. Pastor Kwashie Tettevi is the founder of Glorious Liberty Outreach Church in Ghana, West Africa. He has been pastoring for almost 40 years and remains active in ministry.

The Price of Love

Today is Valentine’s Day, a day the world has so romanticized with flowers, chocolates, jewelry, and a very unrealistic portrait of what love looks like. In fact, many people around the globe are feeling the pressure of outdoing themselves to celebrate the ones they profess to love. However, love is not always as glamorous as mainstream media portrays it. In December, I read a blurb from the book “Quiet Spaces for Christmas” and I will share pieces of this reading with you today as we celebrate this day of love.

Love is not painless. It carries with it the likelihood of being wounded. Every relationship has the possibility of hurt. You can love and not be loved back. The ones you may love may not be loveable. Words can be said without thought, regrettable actions that can’t be undone can be undertaken, all in the name of love. God is not immune to the price of love either. He too cannot love without the possibility of being hurt and He has been hurt. He lamented over the hardness of the heart of His people throughout the Old Testament (Psalms 81:13) and continues to grieve over the hardness of our hearts in this present age. God created us and loves us and yet throughout history, God has been maligned, misunderstood, ignored, criticized, and mocked. Still, He continues to shower humankind with His grace. He extends favour to each of us in countless ways. His mercies are renewed every morning. He is patient and persistent with His love. He did not stop loving when the price of love cost Him his only Son.

As followers of Jesus, we can expect to share in the cost of love. We are not immune to the heartache of rejection, persecution, misunderstanding, strained relationships or losses. These may come from our own family or friends whom we deeply love. In those moments, remember that God understands what it is to love and not be loved in return. So today as we celebrate love, not everyone will be celebrating the same way.

Today may not be a pleasant day for people dealing with the pain of rejection, heartbreak, distance, impending divorces, child custody battles, the loss of a loved one, etc. Here is my encouragement to everyone whether you are being wooed in the thrills of the day, or if today leaves a bad taste in your mouth:

The LORD directs the steps of the godly. He delights in every detail of their lives.

Psalm 37:23 NLT

God knows; He cares; He delights in every detail of your life- the good, the bad, and the ugly! There’s not a friend like the lowly Jesus! Take a moment to share with Him how your day is going.

Yours Truly

P.S. Happy Valentine’s Day!!!

Derailed- A Dream Deferred

Did you have certain goals for your life that have not materialized? Have you ever felt like the plans you had for your self and the outcomes of your life have been derailed? My whole childhood, I groomed myself to be a medical doctor. I graduated one of the top of my class from elementary school all the way to high school. I got accepted into two reputable medical schools, got recommended for partial and full ride scholarships to three countries outside my home country to study medicine, and actually started to pursue a career in medicine by virtue of one such scholarship. Then through a series of events, I switched my majors with a hope to find my way back into medical school. 17 years later, I have settled in another career and with each passing day my career as a medical doctor becomes a distant dream…a what could have been! I know I am not alone in having a dream or life plan be seemingly derailed. Let’s look at a story from the Old testament:

One day Terah took his son Abram, his daughter-in-law Sarai (his son Abram’s wife), and his grandson Lot (his son Haran’s child) and moved away from Ur of the Chaldeans. He was headed for the land of Canaan, but they stopped at Haran and settled there. Terah lived for 205 years and died while still in Haran.

Genesis 11:31-32 NLT

Terah was headed for Canaan, which was God’s promised land for the people who would come out of Abraham, the Israelites. This was land that God describes later as a land flowing with milk and honey… and Terah was headed towards his set destiny but got derailed. He stopped in Haran and settled there and there he died. His dream of a land flowing with milk and honey died with him in Haran. End of story. I could end my blog post here… he died and so did the dream of Canaan. But thank God for redemption.

I was recently introduced to the concept of redemptive thinking through a 2 minute podcast I heard from Susie Larson. I am going to explore this concept more in another post in the near future. But what I want to say about this for now is redemptive thinking is about changing the way you think and it starts by believing that God is good. When you believe that God is good, you can also believe that He works everything out for your good and for his glory. The dream of Canaan appeared to have died with Terah but it was always in the heart of God that the Israelites would possess the promised land. However, so much had to happen between when Terah had this plan and when his descendants would actually live in that land- including a name change of Terah’s great grandson from Jacob to Israel. And with each passing year, this dream became more a distant past but one day this happened…

The LORD had said to Abram, “Leave your native country, your relatives, and your father’s family, and go to the land that I will show you. I will make you into a great nation. I will bless you and make you famous, and you will be a blessing to others. I will bless those who bless you and curse those who treat you with contempt. All the families on earth will be blessed through you.”

Genesis 12:1-3 NLT

God put Abraham back on course towards the set destiny and plan! Funny enough, this dream was not Abraham’s to see fulfilled. In fact Abraham got to Canaan and there were people already there and so he had to move on. However, what Abraham had that Terah did not, was the blessing of God. God blessed him and his descendants and in so doing the dream even though was not fulfilled physically in Abraham’s lifetime, was fulfilled through his seed. The blessing of God ensured that God remembered Abraham long after he was dead and God fulfilled the promise of Canaan to him (Exodus 2:24). Abraham had a future and a hope and even though he died, the dream was preserved and fulfilled in its appointed time.

Many times we are so busy making and pursing our plans and desires that we forget to ask for God’s blessings. Other times, we forget that it is His plan for us that prevails despite our skilled planning. We forget that He is good and therefore His plans for us are good and are bringing us to His expected end… His vision of Canaan for us (Jeremiah 29:11).

Commit to the LORD whatever you do, and he will establish your plans. Proverbs 16:3 NIV

Many are the plans in a person’s heart, but it is the LORD’s purpose that prevails. Proverbs 19:21 NIV

When Abraham went through Canaan, there was no mention of a land flowing with milk and honey. In fact, there was famine in the land and so he had to go to Egypt. Abraham’s version of Canaan was not God’s expected end for Abraham and his descendants. I say all this to say that our plans are not always aligned with God’s expected end for our lives and so sometimes a dream “derailed” or deferred is not necessarily a bad thing. It could be the best thing that ever happened to us. The key is to trust God like Abraham did and even when plans seem derailed, God can bring us to His expected end.

There are a few concepts that I have touched on briefly that you can spend time reflecting on: God’s purpose [will] vs our plans; the blessings of God; the function of appointed time in the fulfilment of our plans; and the goodness of God. I will end with some questions and encouragement for you: Has your life in recent times or time past felt like a winding road? Have things not been going smoothly as planned? Does your career path feel like it is all over the place? Are you feeling tossed about by the billows of life? Then may you find encouragement in this:

Trust in the LORD with all your heart, and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will make your paths straight [emphasis mine].

Proverbs 3:5-6 BSB