Hello 2021

Oh my! I can’t believe we are at the end of January and already my new year resolutions seem to be going the way of the dodo! My commitment to you my dear readers was that this year, I will consistently send out a post each week which highlights how God is teaching me to live a spirit-empowered life but alas, the busyness of life had had the better of my weeks.

In fact this segues nicely into a scripture I read this week:

I will instruct you and teach you in the way you should go; I will counsel you with my loving eye on you. Do not be like the horse or the mule, which have no understanding but must be controlled by bit and bridle or they will not come to you.


This scripture serves as both a reassurance and a reminder. I am reminded that God wants to be the center of my affection and my attention. He wants to lead and guide me even through the hustle and bustle of my days. More importantly, God reminds me to seek his counsel and guidance willingly and wholeheartedly. In 2021, I do not have to wait until I am in dire straits or at my wits end or encumbered with the weights of this world like a bridled horse before I turn to God.

So dear readers, I will like to start your year off with this encouragement: don’t let life’s circumstances force you to include God in your plans but rather be intentional in doing so and my prayer for you is found in Proverbs 16:3; that as you commit everything to the LORD, He will cause your plans to succeed and be established. Catch you next week!

Yours Truly.

Why did we get married?

When my husband and I were preparing for our wedding, I remember meeting his family for the first time and his aunt pulled us aside and asked “why do you want to get married?” In that moment I thought this must be some trick question… you know how in-laws can be… and so wanting to make a good impression, I said because we love each other and we believe this is what God wants us to do. She responded in the most unusual way and that moment is forever etched in my memory. She said while my response was all well and good, the reason God ordained marriage was found in this scripture:

Didn’t the LORD make you one with your wife? In body and spirit you are his. And what does he want? Godly children from your union. So guard your heart; remain loyal to the wife of your youth.


As my husband and I have added years on to our nuptials and with that children, the responsibility to raise godly children weighs heavily on us. Last year as I was reading through the book of Judges, I came across many instances where “a whole generation did not know God” and in wondering how this was ever possible, I realized the importance of marriage.

In marriage, a family is born and that is the only physical representation we have on earth of what God envisions of a His glorious church- Christ the Bridegroom and his church the bride. Jesus promises that he will build His Church and the gates of hell will not prevail against it (Matt 16:18) . One of the ways God builds His Church is through the union of marriage in the creation of families. As godly children are raised in families, God’s kingdom is advanced and established on earth. Generations are born who know God and can raise generations that know God and so forth. Unfortunately, the opposite is true. Parents can also be complicit in raising generations that do neither know God nor serve Him. This is why marriage as an institution is very prone to the devil’s attacks. If the enemy can tear down the basic unit of the church, then it appears he is winning but he will NEVER win. Because every time our children (biological or otherwise) lift up praise to God, the enemy is defeated

From the mouths of children and infants You have ordained praise on account of Your adversaries, to silence the enemy and avenger.


Yours Truly